Torn Between College & the Military

Feeling stuck, guys. I can't decide whether to enroll in college or join the military post-high school. Anyone else feeling this way or have any advice on how I can make this heavy decision?

This is certainly a big decision, and it's normal to feel a bit overwhelmed by it. Both paths – college and the military – offer different experiences, opportunities, and potential life outcomes.

Let's try to break it down a bit. If you're drawn to the discipline, structure, and sense of purpose the military provides, along with the ability to serve your country, that's something worth diving deeper into. The military can also provide valuable skills and training in various fields. Tuition assistance and GI Bill benefits are also positive aspects if you're considering further education down the line. However, it's crucial to thoroughly understand and be ready for the physical demands and personal sacrifices, such as extended time away from family and friends.

On the other hand, if learning and intellectual growth is your primary attraction, and you have a clear idea of the career path you want to follow (which requires a college degree), then college might be your route. College also offers some level of freedom, personal development, and networking opportunities. However, depending on your financial situation, it's necessary to consider the cost of education and the potential burden of student loans.

One approach to making this decision is to speak with people from both paths. Try reaching out to college students or recent grads, as well as military personnel or veterans. Learn about their experiences, benefits, and hardships they faced, and potential regrets, if any.

Remember, this decision is not a one-way street. Some individuals enlist in the military before heading to college, and vice versa. Others even consider attending a military college like West Point or the Naval Academy, where they provide a college education while preparing you for a military career.

Evaluate what you want from your immediate future, and what you believe will deliver the long-term outcomes you desire. It's a personal decision that ultimately should align with your values, goals, and comfort level. Good luck deciding - you got this!