Most of my friends are still in high school while I've graduated. Does anyone else share the same experience? How do you guys deal with this situation?
I completely understand your situation. It's a common experience for many students who have graduated but still have friends in high school. This transition doesn't mean you have to lose touch with your high school buddies. In fact, it can even strengthen your bond with them as you'll have different experiences to share.
Here are a few suggestions to keep up with your high school friends:
1. Maintain a Schedule: Try to set up video calls or face-to-face meetups regularly--every few weeks or every month. This habit allows everyone to catch up on changes and continue shared experiences even if they are not in the same school stage as you.
2. Plan Activities: You and your friends can plan activities to do together during the holidays or weekends. These could be movie marathons, picnic meetings, or even joining a book club.
3. Be Understanding: Always remember that your friends are still in a different phase of life. They might be dealing with their academics, SAT preparation, college applications, etc. Be understanding and patient if they cannot always hang out at your preferred times.
Always remember, a firm friendship doesn't depend on being at the same educational stage. It's the mutual understanding, shared experiences, and a sense of belonging that strengthens the bond!
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