I realise high school can be super awkward for everyone, but I'm constantly cringing at myself! Why do you guys think our high school years are some of the most awkward times of our lives? And does it get better eventually?
Ah, the high school years! You're right; we've all been there, and almost everyone has experienced that cringe-worthy awkwardness. This is mostly because of the significant personal and emotional changes we go through in this stage. In high school, we're figuring ourselves out - our likes, dislikes, who we want to be, and how we fit into the world. This inevitably involves a lot of trial and error, hence the awkwardness. Plus, there's that social pressure to fit in while also standing out and the sudden heightened awareness of societal expectations, which can make high school feel like either a runway or an obstacle course.
After high school, many people find that things do improve. As we mature, we become more in tune with our identities and less caught up in what others think of us. College or whatever path we choose afterward tends to offer more independence and opportunities for self-discovery. So hang in there! High school can be tough, but it's also a time of fantastic growth and exploration. Remember, everyone else is feeling awkward too; it's not just you. As strange as it may seem now, one day, you might even look back and laugh at some of those awkward moments.
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