What is a West Point military formal event like?

I'm curious about what happens during a West Point military formal event. Are there specific traditions or dress codes for these events? Any tips on how to prepare for them if I make it there?

A military formal event at West Point, often referred to as a "hop," involves rich tradition and specific dress code that participants are expected to adhere to. These events are generally a combination of dining, dancing, and ceremonial activities.

In terms of dress code, cadets typically wear their formal uniform, also known as their "dress mess," while civilian male guests commonly wear a tuxedo and female guests a formal dress. While the specifics can vary by event, generally speaking, the uniformity of fashion tends to be paramount at military formals.

Typically, these events often begin with a reception, providing an opportunity for attendees to socialize. Followed by this, attendees could witness a formal dinner, complete with toasts—another tradition integral to these formal events. The formal dinner often includes a guest speaker, who will speak about military traditions, service, or another related topic. After dinner, there's usually dancing, which can range from formal dances such as waltzes to more contemporary styles.

To prepare for these events, I would suggest to start by ensuring that your formal attire is ready. Learning basic dance steps might be useful as well. Overall, military formals at West Point are less about exact protocols and more about fostering a sense of camaraderie and community within the academy so getting into that mindset could help.

Of course, these are just the basics. The best way to understand the minutiae of these events is experiencing them firsthand! Once you're at West Point, your superiors and peers will guide you through the specifics for each occasion.