I'm currently in the process of transferring to a new college, but I feel pretty lonely and disconnected. Has anyone else felt this way? How did you manage to find a community or make friends during the transfer?
This feeling is completely valid and more common than you might think. Many students who transfer deal with feelings of isolation initially, so you're not alone in your experience. It's important to remember, that it takes time to find your place in a new environment, don't rush the process.
One effective strategy to connect with others is to join student organizations or clubs that pertain to your interests. This provides an instant group of people with a common interest, which can be a great starting point for building relationships. If your new college provides resources for transfer students, such as orientation or a transfer student organization, be sure to utilize these, as they can be incredibly valuable sources of support and community.
Also, most colleges have a variety of social events, study groups, intramural sports, etc., where you can meet people and start forming friendships. Hang in there, it will get easier with time.
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