Hey folks, I just got my room assignment for next year and they gave me the contact info for my roommate. I'm a little anxious about it, honestly. What's the best way to introduce myself to them over a text message? I want to make a good first impression, but I don't want to come off too strong at the same time. Also, what are the important details to share and ask for?
Keeping it friendly, casual, and to the point is the best way to make a good starting impression.
Address them by their name to personalize your text. This shows you're respectful and interested in getting to know them. You could start with a simple greeting like, "Hi [their name], this is [your name]. We're going to be roommates this coming school year. I'm really excited to meet you and explore campus together.”
For the content of the message, it's essential to share a little about yourself; your major, interests, your hometown, and some hobbies. For instance, "I'm a biology major from Florida and I love hiking, cooking, and volunteering at animal shelters in my spare time."
Follow this up by asking them similar questions about their major, hobbies, and where they're from. This opens up a topic for further conversation.
Lastly, it is essential to discuss logistics. Questions about when they plan to arrive on campus, whether they're bringing any large items, and how you two want to coordinate on room supplies can be helpful.
Remember to show excitement about the upcoming year, stay positive, and keep things light-hearted, and this process will go smoothly. Good luck!
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