Stressin' about the Common App essay

Writing isn't my strong suit and this whole Common App essay thing is giving me anxiety. Where do I even start? What topics have you all written about? Are there any must-dos or definite don'ts that I should be aware of?

The Common App essay can definitely be intimidating, but it's also a valuable opportunity to let admission officers get to know you on a deeper level. Before you get started, perhaps spend some time reflecting on your experiences, values, and growth moments. This reflection can help you decide on a potential topic that illuminates an important aspect of your identity or experiences that wouldn't be obvious elsewhere on your application.

In terms of topics, it is said that it's not always what you write about, but how you write it. That being said, consider your audience - admission officers will read hundreds, if not thousands, of essays, so think about how you could present your story in a unique and engaging manner. If a story is truly important to you and can provide significant insight into your background and personality, it's likely a good choice, regardless of the specific topic.

As for the don'ts, try to avoid cliche topics unless you have a truly unique spin or deeply personal connection to them. So avoid the standard stories about sports victories, the big move, or the classic "immigrant's story" unless you can approach it from an angle that will provide a fresh take. Also, I would advise against borrowing essay topics or ideas from others. Your essay should be personal to you, and should reflect your individual experiences and perspectives.

Finally, remember that your essay isn't expected to be a finished product from the get-go. The drafting process is just as important as the final essay, so don't be afraid to experiment, ask for feedback, and make changes. It's also a good idea to have a couple of trusted readers (like teachers, counselors, or mentors) who can provide constructive feedback.

While it can seem daunting, this is your chance to share something meaningful about yourself—so try to enjoy the process of reflection and self-narration! Good luck!