I’m a high school junior and I’m wondering how to choose and ask which teachers to write me a letter of recommendation. Also, what approach is best? Thanks!
CollegeVine has a lot of helpful articles on this topic:
https://blog.collegevine.com/?s=teacher+recommendations
https://blog.collegevine.com/10-tips-for-talking-to-your-high-school-teachers/
https://blog.collegevine.com/the-dos-and-donts-of-guidance-counselor-recommendations/
https://blog.collegevine.com/how-important-are-letters-of-recommendation/
https://blog.collegevine.com/how-to-pick-which-teachers-to-ask-for-letters-of-recommendation/
The easy answer is that it's supposed to be someone who knows you well, teaches a core academic subject, and has taught you recently. But I was recently waitlisted by my first choice. Getting the opportunity to submit additional LORs meant I reached out to teachers I would normally not have reached out to.
There's a prof for dual enrollment I had for two online classes. I felt like we didn't have a great connection, but he ended up being really invested in my process. It turned out he was also an adjunct at my first choice and the classes I took from him have the same curriculum as the ones he teaches at university. I filled out a letter of recommendation questionnaire to help him get to know me better, which led to more questions from him.
There was another professor I had for two online dual enrollment classes. It turned out he was an alumni of my first choice school, and really dug in deep over email trying to get to know me so he could write a good letter.
But then there's a high school teacher I had and thought I was close to. He was my teacher recently and taught a core subject. He didn't follow my directions carefully and accidentally emailed me the LOR. It was pretty common. It looked like the kind of letter that he probably sends for anyone who asks, with just a few details changed so it applied to me.
So I feel like everything I knew on how to choose a teacher for letters of recommendation has been upended. Here's what remains true: It definitely helps to look up a questionnaire online and fill it out. It's supposed to be best to ask in person without anyone else accompanying you. (Don't walk up with a friend and say "Can you write us letters of recommendation?") But with covid, email is a fine alternative to in-person asking. After they write the LOR, you should thank them. And once decisions are done coming in, it's nice to update them on where you got in and even where you were waitlisted. There's no need to tell them where you were denied, as the idea is to thank them again and give credit for where they helped you get closer to your college dreams.
For picking a teacher, in high school, I asked my favorite teacher that I felt I had the strongest work in. Now in college, I asked the professor who taught the most classes in the major I'm in. I find that asking over email is best if you aren't seeing them frequently. Bring up asking them in person then follow it up with an email elaborating more. Always have a few picked out in case one cannot make the deadline or can't write you one.
Choose teachers who know you well and have seen your academic growth, especially in subjects related to your college interests. Aim for teachers from junior or senior year, and consider balancing recommendations from different subject areas.
When asking, approach them early, preferably in person. Express why you value their perspective and how they’ve impacted your learning. Provide them with any necessary materials (like a resume or personal statement) to help them write a strong, personalized letter. Always follow up with a thank you note.
Make sure you choose teachers who know you outside of just the classroom. You want someone who will represent you further than what your application does.
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Thank you for sharing your experience! Did you go in-depth when filling out the question are? @JustPeachy