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• 05/26/2020 at 09:52PM

Should I write about religion in college app essays?


I am considering writing an essay about my challenge of the notion you can't be gay and Christian through personal experiences. However, I am concerned that there may be a stigma against my application if I decide to write about said experience.

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3 answers

• 05/26/2020 at 10:49PM

I don't think it's a bad topic but you need to make sure you don't come off as overly negative. It could be a very inspiring essay or it could be very generic. I think if you dig into specific experiences that you've had with sexuality and religion then it will turn out well. Just don't generalize it towards Christianity as a whole because a lot of Christian sects embrace it. The notion that you can't be gay and Christian is usually perpetuated by more conservative sects and people who aren't Christian and don't know what they're talking about. Just be careful to be specific to your experience and avoid being too broad and I think it will be appreciated.

I'd also consider for a minute what I think the other answer is trying to say, which is that you should make sure this is a part of your identity. If you know that your religion and experience is a major part of who you are, then colleges will want to hear about it. However, if you were raised Christian but you don't consider it a big part of your life, maybe reconsider.

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[🎤 AUTHOR]@adri05/27/2020 at 02:20AM

catholic, sorry... but thank you!

• 05/27/2020 at 04:41PM[edited]

@cp839's answer is good, but to add to it, consider the colleges that you're applying to. All colleges are different and many will have different outlooks on religion in general; for example, sending this essay to Santa Clara University or Boston College (top Jesuit universities) would likely get a different reaction than sending it to a secular university like Cornell. That doesn't mean positive or negative—just different.

In general, if you're going to write an essay with a topic like this, you need to make sure you're leaning into the personal and not the more abstract part of this topic. An essay about how your experiences with religion and sexual orientation have shaped you as a person is great. An essay about Catholicism and sexual orientation *in general* is a bad essay—not because of any stigma, but because it's not enough about you. The danger with these kinds of essays is that they can very easily become an Opinions & Editorials piece about a topic rather than a personal essay about your experiences—they need to be the latter to be successful.

[🎤 AUTHOR]@adri05/27/2020 at 04:57PM

i'm personalizing it quite a bit... relating it to my personal experience... like how I'm super devout, and still want to be. I don't express anything close to an editorial...

05/27/2020 at 05:06PM

Cool, then you're on the right track. I've just seen a lot of essays where students pick a topic that's really important to them and end up writing more about the topic than themselves—so it's something to watch out for.

• 05/26/2020 at 09:59PM

You're overthinking it. College is meant to explore and many people cast off past affiliations and adopt new ones, including religion. Colleges want to know if you can handle the academic work, first and foremost. Secondly, a few care if you can contribute to community. Most don't care and only need/want your tuition.

[🎤 AUTHOR]@adri05/26/2020 at 10:18PM

am I overthinking on my topic or my worry of the topic?

@emma1505/26/2020 at 10:45PM

I don't think you're overthinking it; it's okay to be careful and contemplative about your essays. After all, they are important. To be honest, a compelling and thoughtful essay on any topic is all the colleges ask for. If being Christian & gay means to you and comprises a lot of your personal identity, go for it!