Should I go to college in my hometown?Answered
In the past I have assumed I would definitely go out of state, however as I've started looking into theater more (theater tech specifically) I've realized one of the programs that I really like is in my hometown. It's a relatively big city and there is a lot of diversity in different parts of it, so I feel as though it would be enough "new" that I'd be happy and it would still be a new experience. My parents REALLY do not want me to stay in-state for college and would like me to go somewhere decently far away, however I can't really find any theater programs that I like as much as this one. Thoughts? Any tips on how I can convince them to not hate the idea of me staying in-town?
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Hi!! I think that you and your parents both have valid points, and like some people said you should go with your gut and do what feels right for you.
When my father was in high school, he decided to go to a school in his hometown where he could commute back and forth instead of staying on campus. He dropped out after two months. It can be really difficult to commit to studying at a college especially since it’s much less structured than high school and no one can force you to go to class. This may be your parents’ concern. This isn’t to say you shouldn’t stay in-state, as there are a lot of benefits, but I’d encourage you to explore other options and like some others said, get out of your comfort zone. Or if you want to live on campus, there shouldn’t be a big problem as it is a big city!
I don’t know what your parents are specifically worried about with in-state college but it’s always good to have an open conversation about their concerns, so you can potentially sort it out and come up with a plan together!!! I’m sure you will succeed wherever you choose, but of course you should follow your heart and go with a program that you absolutely love, even if it is in your city. Good luck!!!!!
Hello! I would talk to your parents about the benefits of staying close to home: in state tuition, coming home for holidays, familiarity with the surroundings, friends close by, etc. Additionally, depending on how close the campus is to home you could commute, saving thousands on room and board! In the end, it is your choice where you choose to go it is your education. Lastly, if the school close to home fits your needs/wants they will eventually understand your decision.
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I think you should do what your heart desires. If you really like this program, go for it. I'm sure your parents have their reasons but they can't expect you to move out of state if you would not prefer it. You have the rest of your life to go explore the world later on if that's what you choose.
On convincing them, I'm not too sure. If most of your extended family lives nearby, you can use that. Or tell them your reasons for why you want to go there. If you are passionate, give them the whole spiel. I know I am primarily looking to stay in the area of my home state so it's not an uncommon occurrence.
For me personally, I would do whatever sets me up best for the career I want. If you think that that school will give you a good enough opportunity along with the costs, I def would go with it. If your parents said they were gonna pay for school you could try to find a better collage, but if your the one paying do what you want. But in the end its your school, you are the one living and learning there.
Do what you think will give you the best chance, and that you like the most. If your parents won't accept you want to stay in-state it might suck, but your parents have no say in where you go to college. and they will be a lot happier if you stay in state and succeed instead of going out of state than failing. and you would be happier too.
There is another way to think about it. I agree with @carlypalla, but it could be a good idea to go out of state, that way you can experience something new instead of just staying where you're familiar. Maybe you could find a college near a beach (unless the one in your hometown is near a beach) and go to the beach every weekend. You know, it's good to get out of your comfort zone and try new things. I thought I should go to college close to home, too, but now I'm completely reconsidering my decision.
Remember all because a college is out of state doesn't mean it's too expensive. There are a lot of scholarships out there and you could get a free ride anywhere. You might have to get the aid throughout college, not getting it all before you go, but it's completely possible.
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